Do we over worry ?
By Jessica Lozada
Written November 9, 2004
As moms do we worry way to much? or is this a matter of life?
It all began around 3:00 in the afternoon that my 10 year old son, brought home a paper, from school, about a conference I had to assist with him , although it read fundraiser, I was alittle worried, what the problem will be.
So I asked him, "Brian,..What happened in school today?",..he really didn't go into details, he talked to me about this boy who is always picking on him, then he came upon another problem about 3 more boys who went to the bathroom and started to hit him,.so I decided to have a chat with his father and see what we can do in regards of the school issues.
Later this afternoon,.I didn't even care about thinking I had to go to school the next day, all I did was work and do my home choures,..
The next day I decided to wouldn't be able to make it to the conference because my husband was sick and my toddler, so I called the school and told them what this fundraiser was all about and that it was a posibility I coudn't go,.so with my surprise, the receptionist, was really rude and out of control, telling me that I really had to go becuase my son was causing some problems, and he wasn't accepted til I went over,..I was so surprised asking myself what was going on,...?
Not even I had the response.
I was crazy and even sick to my stomach wondering what had happened,. all I can think of at this moment was the punishment I was going to give him,...I called my husband from the bed and we went to school, I talked to someone and there I was still nervous and crying and praying to God nothing bad had happened,..'
All of a sudden the Principal comes over to me and asks me ,.."Are you here for....?" not even he had knew why I was there,..so behind him came another teacher and told me ,.."Oh your Brian Reyes mom?",.I said" Yes",..she said oh this about the fundraiser, and I was like wow, crying and laughing at the same time,..
I mean as mom's do we worry way too much,? or this is natural,.I got so sick when this happened and,.I realized I went a little over board, I actually didn't have confidence that my son, would not do anything so bad he would get suspended,..
I got home and prayed and told God how wrong was I thinking bad about my son, but how right HE is for taking care of my steps ahead,...
We should not worry so much in life, we need to be alittle more faithfull to God and trust that HE will guide and take good care of us and our kids, wether they are in school,.playground and even when they are sleeping,....
Tuesday, November 09, 2004
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2 comments:
I saw your link from the blog group at Ryze and I enjoyed visiting your blogs. :) I especially enjoyed seeing your thoughts as a mother... know that you are not alone! Many, many mothers feel the same way and go through the same emotions.
I'm carefully developing a course and system for how to organize time and other such topics for 'how to organize time so enjoyed this on Do we worry to much?. Thanks Jessie's Balancing Tips & More. Nathan
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